Know What Works!
One View - Two lessons
Every one of us can only see the world from our own own point of view. Even the most empathetic person still filters every thought through their own history, belief system and personal view of the world.
Why is this important in sales? We need to remember that people buy for their own reasons and we sell for our reasons.
Now, most sales people are sophisticated enough not to ask people to buy because they want to pay their bills or earn more commissions. Although, I have known sales people who would do just that.
What most sales & marketing people do is to list the features and benefits of the product to the buyer hoping that the buyer will act in a rational way (as defined by the seller) and choose to buy.
This is the twist. When people decide to buy they do not act logically or practically. When people buy they act in their own self interest.
Let me give you an example. The car I drive is not based on a rational thinking. My car is expensive to operate, expensive to repair and designed completely for performance. It is not fuel efficient and costs more to operate every month.
I do not drive my car because it makes sense to drive my car, I drive my car because I like my car. I like how it drives and I like the way driving it makes me feel.
My decision to drive my car is based on a decision process that is common to all of us.
I drive my car based on emotions - 100%.
Sure, I can justify my purchase by stressing quality and long-term value but this is rationalization.
Lesson One
When selling know that every decision is based on emotion and then justified with reason.
More importantly, understand that each one of us has different emotional reasons for our decisions to buy. Whether the emotion is fear, the need for acceptance, the need for approval by those we respect, the need to please those we like, the need to feel important or the need to feel special we all need to satisfy something within ourselves.
Understand what this means and you have the opportunity to frame your offer in a way that will push the right buttons. Now, pushing the right buttons will not guarantee you get the business but it does mean you will not be working against yourself.
In this arena listening to people and watching their choices carefully will go a long way to finding their buttons.
Tip: listen to what they say compares to the choices they make to truly understand what they value.
Lesson Two
Don't expect others to look out for your interest - don't expect others to care what is important to you.
Don't put yourself in a situation where you are constantly fighting the world to get your agenda on someone else's table.
If you are about quality then only work with those who value quality. If you are about price then only work with those who value price. Trying to convert people will make your life a frustration and will hold you back.
Align yourself with customers, employees, suppliers who share the same goals as you do. If you have a customer or an employee who does not share your values, fire them and put your energy into pleasing people whom you understand how to please.
The strategy
Businesses and individuals spend lifetimes trying to please or to influence or to control people based on their own values.
This does not work.
First, understand what you do well and what you like to do and do only that.
Second, figure out who values what you do well and like to do and work with those types of people and those types of customers.
You will be happier and more successful.